Like many other admitted golf addicts, I ‘ve struggled endlessly over the years, through frustration, embarrassment, weeping, and of course, the painful gnashing of teeth, trying to somehow learn how to play the stupid game, and all of that just to get to my current level of pretty questionable competence.
Probably the biggest part of the struggle though, apart from absence of hand-eye coordination, and overall athletic nothingness, is that so much of golf is counterintuitive.
“Hit down on the ball to make it go up”, as an example. How obvious is that? And then even if you do know it, can you actually make yourself do it?
Something being counterintuitive means that it’s backwards to what you think it would be. It’s the opposite of what the seemingly obvious common sense approach would tell us to do. It’s just not “natural”. (There is no “natural “golf, my wife has told me for years there’s no natural reason for it).
So counterintuitive ideas normally don’t just occur to most people, even the really smart ones. That means we probably won’t ever figure them out on our own. We'll need to learn them from somewhere or someone, who knows what they’re doing. (And that’s usually not the guys we play with, who typically rhyme off all the usual, non-counterintuitive, advice?. “Keep your head down”, “Keep your eye on the ball”, etc.).
And we will absolutely have to force ourselves to do one of them because most of the fibers of our beings will be screaming that it’s wrong, wrong, wrong.
And we probably still won’t believe in it, until we ourselves, personally, actually, see it really work for us.
Advice to anyone starting out in golf would be to get lessons from a really good teacher and do what they tell you. Don’t even try to learn it on your own. This is evident when enviously watching the current crop of well coached, high school kids with their smooth, trained, consistent swings and comparing them with all the older, more “experienced”, golf veterans on the driving range hacking and smashing and slashing at the ball with this year’s $400 hot club. (while yelling at themselves to keep their &*^$*^%# heads down).
Obsessing about this (no kidding) my belief developed that the biggest reason proactive maintenance processes don’t seem to occur naturally in our world, and when they do occur, have trouble being sustained, is that It’s almost all counterintuitive.
Here's a few examples. There are many more: